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  • 7 Major Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore!
  • 5 Surprising Reasons Women Want Married Men
  • 5 Liberating Ways to Let Sh*t Go!
  • How Gratitude Can Improve Your Life
  • 10 Thought-Provoking Questions to Ask Anyone
  • Today, 2•22•22, is a very special day for so many reasons. 

On this day, 4 years ago, I became your girlfriend. On this day, 1 year ago, I became your Fiancé. 

And now, today, we elope and I become your WIFE. 

Ashton, I take you forever as my loving husband. I promise to love, honor, and cherish you.

No matter what lies before us..

In sickness and in health, for as long as we both shall live. 

Now we will feel no rain, for each of us have a shelter in one another. 

Now there will be no loneliness, for each of us will be a companion to the other. 

On this day, 2•22•22, I walk proudly by your side as we step into this new chapter of life together. 

I love you forever & always, MY HUSBAND.

🤍 Ashley Marshall.
  • I used to think that the solution to my problems was to rearrange things outside of me.

“If only I had more money”, “If only I looked this way”, “If only I had a good relationship”

—or whatever lies I was telling myself about what would make my life better. 

The thing  was.. I always ran into a couple of issues:

1️⃣ I  was either not in the right state of mind to even accomplish those things, or 

2️⃣ Once I had it, it only replaced one problem with another!

It took me years to finally realize that the only true solution to my problems was to go inside and let go of the part of me that seemed to have so many issues with my reality. 

Letting go of pain and trauma and anxiety is not easy, especially when you weren’t even aware that it was there to begin with…and it definitely doesn’t happen over night.

But  that was a journey I was willing to go on

—as long as it meant I didn’t have to feel this way all the time. 

The art of “letting go” is a skill that I am forever grateful to have learned and acts as an extremely powerful tool in my life every day.

By shedding these heavy, dark parts of me that were subconsciously holding me back, I was able to create the life I wanted before the age of 30. 

No solution can possibly exist while you’re lost in the energy of a problem. 

My advice: CLEAN UP YOUR INSIDE FIRST‼️

I explain how I practice “the art of letting go” in a post on The Honey Blog called:

🖕🏽“5 Liberating Ways to Let Shit Go”🖕🏽

I’ll put the link in my bio if you want to read it, I tried to explain it in a way that I thought would resonate with you. 

And if not, just remember.. 

You won’t be able to solve anything outside until you own how the situation affects you inside. 🙏

Cheers from Colombia!
  • To know my deepest fears & insecurities and still love me through them takes a real soul mate. 

To never use them against me and instead strengthen me to grow out of them takes a real man.

To know that I get to spend the rest of my life by your side as your wife… takes my breath away.

I hope that everyone gets the chance to love like this in their lifetime 🙏
  • It’s so nice to have friends/family visiting here in Colombia. 

It’s already such a great place, but when you’re surrounded by love.. it’s a whole new vibe! 

Happy Birthday, Shane! Thank you for the kind words 🧡
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